Detour on the road to success: Trusting intuition

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Ca. Route 395, Eastern Sierras: Kathleen McCormick, 2014

In the United States we are a goal driven society. We often set daily, weekly, monthly and yearly goals for ourselves. We strive to obtain these goals and then we beat ourselves up when we don’t. Do we ever stop to ask ourselves: is there a better way?

The interesting thing about life is that it is most interesting when we trust our intuition and end up somewhere that we didn’t expect. Listening to our intuition about what to do next is obscured by goal-setting. Intuition is often in direct conflict with goals.

Yes, goals are good to have to achieve something in the traditional sense but they often weigh us down and drive us forward into courses of action that we find no fulfillment in. Ask all those achievers who are secretly and sometimes not so secretly depressed. You can get somewhere and still be nowhere.

Money and status are the barometers of success in the developed world yet I often have observed that those with much less in other parts of the world often seem happier and have a much better sense of community. Let’s face it, success can be isolating; it can create jealousy and discord among one’s peers. I’ve found that the happiest successful people do their best to minimize the perception of their success. In a word, they are humble.

So, how do you get somewhere you want to go? Yes, make a plan but be open to the subtle ways that life can take you in a slightly different direction on a whim. The happiest people got somewhere not by clawing their way to the top but by putting one foot in front of the other and staying open to where the joy of what they were doing took them. It really is the journey not the destination.

And, when and if you get there, remember don’t be too full of yourself. After all, if you’ve had some fun on the way you really can’t take yourself too seriously.

That’s the best kind of powerful.

6 thoughts on “Detour on the road to success: Trusting intuition

  1. I have a healthy disrespect for my “vibes,” which are nearly always dead wrong, but intuition, which I take to be a sort of subliminal form of reasoning, can indeed lead in interesting directions.

    1. I really appreciate your turn of phase, Mitch. Subliminal form of reasoning captures the essense of intuition well. Thanks!

  2. Thank you for your post! I am currently at odds with myself. I have been feeling a lot of pressure lately from my peers, family and society’s expectations. I followed my intuition and moved to China, which has been the best therapy in my life…. but recently I have been trying to force myself to return home and complete my college degree because according to modern expectations that’s what I should do to be successful. Thanks again, your post has helped calm me during a stressful time in my life! I need to remember to follow my intuition which has already led me so far….. and that money and/or a degree can’t promise happiness :)

    1. I admire your courage and independence. It’s not easy to leave expectations behind. I write this blog because of people like you. Thanks for reading, Alanna!

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