Affirmations in the past
Affirmations have been around in the popular culture since the 70s. This popularity peaked with now Minnesota senator Al Franken’s Stuart Smalley character on Saturday Night Live in 1991. His routine always ended with, “I’m good enough, I’m smart enough, and doggone it, people like me”. Affirmations could be and were mocked for their simplicity and, in some cases, lack of usefulness.
But affirmations have not gone away. They live on in the self-help world. There are now books of affirmations for every problem that you may experience from overeating to substance abuse to spiritual emptiness. Many people keep a book of affirmations by their bedside to read as inspiration for their day; you may have one or two of these books yourself. The short sayings in these books can be very inspiring and helpful in reorienting your thinking for the day ahead.
But, at some point, you may want to take matters into your own hands by coming up with your own affirmations. We often don’t know how wise we are until we allow ourselves to be our own guide. How might you go about this?
How to create your affirmations
Set aside some time when you get up to focus on your desires, hopes and dreams. This could be immediately upon waking, after you have had your coffee or anytime before you start your day out in the world. Be flexible but when you decide what time in your daily routine to do this stick to that time. For example, you may decide to do this every day while sitting in a chair after you have had your coffee.
Sit quietly for 5-20 minutes with eyes closed concentrating on your breathing or in meditation if you already have a practice. Try to keep your mind as free as possible from your daily concerns.
Towards the end of this period let a thought or two come to the surface. Stay focused on the positive thoughts. Write down or type out a sentence or two that came to you. Refer to it throughout the day by emailing it to yourself or writing it down on a piece of paper that you can look at every once in a while.
Remember, you may not do this perfectly. In fact you won’t. Be gentle with yourself and accept that this is a process and you are learning how to do it, how to maintain it and, ultimately, how you feel you would like to move forward in your life. Everyone has unique ways to face the challenges and opportunities they are presented with; it is up to you to seek your own inner wisdom.
This information is for educational purposes only and should not in any way be considered a substitute for professional help. If you feel that you need immediate assistance please call your local psychiatric emergency services or the SAMSHA Disaster Distress Hotline at 1-800-985-5990.